“How Putting People First Brings Success” Culture Eats Strategy Podcast with John Fairclough
Team members have unique strengths that add to the exponential value of an organization. What strategies can leaders implement to allow for better collaboration? Today, Jaime talks with John Fairclough about how ‘putting people first’ brings success. A bit from the episode… “Jaime: Well, I really… That’s something I can completely get on board with. So, […]
“Put Your People First” Success IQ Podcast with John Fairclough
In this episode John discusses the important role of the resilience he learned as a child has had on the business leader he has become. Also covered is the strength that comes from difficult times often shapes the business leaders and how that has helped John persevere when many other leaders crash and burn. […]
Thanks Springfield Coatings & Motor City Maintenance
Thank you to our vendors Springfield Coatings and Motor City Maintenance, not only for the great work you do all year, but for the great lunch treats. We look forward to another great year of working together.
Secret Santa Visits the Team at HQ!
The Resicom Team celebrated the season when Secret Santa came calling with gifts (some white elephants) for all!! Lots of laughter and good cheer as gifts were opened and lunch was shared!!
Ugly Sweaters, Cookies & Hot Cocoa at the Home Office!!!
The team got pretty expressive with the ugly sweaters this year! Prizes were awarded and we toasted our creativity with hot cocoa and cookies provided by Elvis our office elf.
“Run Your Business Like You’re In a Recession” Onward Nation Podcast with John Fairclough
In this episode John discusses the important role of the resilience he learned as a child has had on the business leader he has become. Also covered is the strength that comes from difficult times often shapes the business leaders and how that has helped John persevere when many other leaders crash and burn. […]
5 Ways Sales Is Changing Forever Podcast featuring John Fairclough
Listen to the B2B Revenue Executive Experience + John Fairclough of The Resicom Group as they discuss connecting with your audience. The internet has permanently changed the sales experience in brick-and-mortar stores. What does “the shopping experience” mean when everyone can use dozens of shopping carts on their smartphones? We had a chance to chat […]
Growth Experts Podcast featuring John Fairclough
Listen to Growth Experts’ Dennis Brown and John Fairclough of The Resicom Group as they discuss unlocking the potential of your company’s biggest assets, your employees. Growth Experts’ Dennis Brown speaks about unlocking the potential of a company’s biggest assets, its employees, with John Fairclough, founder and president of The Resicom Group. Helping retailers optimize […]
The Importance of Being a Key and Strategic Partner
We’re looking to find great companies and great people to do work with. It’s a bold statement, but that’s what we’re looking to do. Learn more about our methodology with John Fairclough below:
Are Your Stores Ready For The Holidays?
Are You Ready? Better Still, Are Your Stores Ready For The Holiday Season? Time Is Running Out… With Back to School wrapped up and Halloween in motion it will soon be time to prepare for the busiest season of all, the Holidays! We know it is only September, but believe it or not, shoppers are […]
Ready For Back To School?
Ready For Back To School? More Importantly, Are the Fitting Rooms Ready for Back to School Shoppers? Its almost time for that hectic shopping season, not the holidays (don’t worry, you still have a few more months to prepare for that), we’re talking about back to school shopping. Shopping lists have been made and parents […]
The Impact of a SMARTproposal
The Impact of a SMARTproposal Far too many proposals are unnecessarily stalled. Though many estimators like to blame it on scope clarifications, a SMARTproposal overcomes this. A SMARTproposal empowers the buyer to make smart decisions, it displays the options and by clearly conveying the differences makes it easier to decide. It also educates, as the […]
Adventures From The Conference: PRSM Mid-Year
We are grateful for our experience at the PRSM Mid-Year Conference and want to thank PRSM for inviting us back to be an educational speaker. We’d also like to thank everyone who stopped by our booth as well as clients, new friends, and colleagues who helped make last week not only successful, but also unforgettable. […]
Things To Do In Chicago While Attending PRSM Midyear
PRSM mid-year is quickly approaching and everyone may be busy preparing and booking their hotels and arranging for transportation. Aside from the conference, have you started thinking about where you would like to visit while in town? Mid-year is right in Resicom’s back yard along with the great city of Chicago. Chicago has so many things […]
Strategic Vendor Client Partnerships Presentation at PRSM Midyear
Offering Innovation and Value Most within the construction, repair and maintenance industry realize what it takes to create a winning client and vendor relationship. The list certainly includes essentials such as exceptional workmanship, great people, and clear communication. But these are just the beginning. Often overlooked, especially when faced with emergencies or seemingly impossible challenges, […]
Meeting a Rapid Refresh Need, Responding to Ebbs and Flows
Big projects can come up suddenly and require quick action, preparation and knowledge about different scopes of work. This week, our technicians are preparing for a client’s major national refresh. To prepare our technicians, a Product Specialist conducted training in our R+D lab, educating them about the products and materials to be used in the […]
Disaster Planning for the Future
The Resicom Group Shares Proven Strategies for Disaster Preparedness in the Current Issue of PRSM Magazine It’s an adage that has been quoted by everyone from Ben Franklin to Winston Churchill in some form or another: Failure to plan is a plan to fail. Nowhere is that more true than when it comes to disasters […]
Breaking Habits that Led to Success
Breaking Habits that Led to Success Every so often I find that little nugget of oxymoronic brilliance that leaves me even more impressed by its unusual packaging. You know the ones I am referring to – they usually come as absolute surprises, speed up the greying process, and bring a rush of “Uh oh, what […]
Stronger Connections
Stronger Connections The potential of a team lies in its ability to work together cohesively. A less informed, less skilled team often beats a more informed, more skilled one that does not coordinate well. Just because you have the talent doesn’t mean you will win. Companies sell products and/or services. If we look at the […]
Mattering More
Mattering More Today I want to share some thoughts on a different type of economy. We are consumers, so everyday we trade our currency for products and services that we want or need. There is another, more hidden economy that we interact with daily as well. Remember, we are people first. Matters of the heart and […]
Standing Corrected
Standing Corrected With all of the mistakes and misunderstandings that happen every day, it’s pretty easy to spot the endearing trait of great leadership. Witnessing humility in action just seems to put me at ease. Seeing someone step into a situation and stand corrected takes great courage and a certain kind of humbleness. I respect […]
The Future of Retail Maintenance
The Future of Retail Maintenance Facilities Maintenance is on the cusp of shining brightly in the new dawn of retail, shedding it’s role as the compliance officer of marketing or the go-to place for financial savings. The adversity and change these folks have experienced has forged strengths in nimbleness, adaptability, and economy. These skills are quite handy for retail […]
A Pit Bull, a Child, and a Moment of Clarity
A Pit Bull, a Child, and a Moment of Clarity A couple of times a year I have those “Aha” moments that help me pivot from the frustrating track that defines insanity. Its funny how when there is an elephant in the room, if it sits still and quiet long enough, people will forget that it […]
Rising Above the Haze of Misplaced Bias
Rising Above the Haze of Misplaced Bias People, Process, Product, and Performance – the often discussed four P’s of business that need to be monitored and improved to keep a business healthy. What doesn’t get a lot of attention are the changes one must go through as they rise in authority and play a different […]
Speed, Unity, and Efficiency
Speed, Unity, and Efficiency To be nimble, quick to respond, and efficient to deliver services requires unity. To raise expectations, we need free ourselves from the ropes of sand that hold us back. They make look strong, but upon further examination, these bonds are easy to break. History is clear – I am more likely […]
Demerits, Notions, and Avoiding Comprehension
Demerits, Notions, and Avoiding Comprehension Building great managers and future leaders of a growing service business is all about teaching people to create and celebrate progress, to find the smart paths through alienation, and make it simpler for the next guy. Think about it – how would you define the performance of a manager that […]
Ambitious Advancement of Expectations
Ambitious Advancement of Expectations As providers of construction services in an industry buffeted by disruption, I have learned, and re-learned our opportunity lies in our ability to advance. How we deliver our services matters. The expectations set by the client are too often called “goals“. This is the part where excellence becomes elusive. Our clients’ […]
The Power of an Engaged Coalition
Something happened recently that really got me talking to myself. It was a humbling, empowering, invigorating, and actionable discussion, though my discussion partner wanted to do more talking than listening… Seriously though, I had a break through because of someone else’s bad “break“. I often talk about actively identifying potential unintended consequences of a decision. […]
The Bias of Neutrality
The Bias of Neutrality I have been busy trying to initiate and deliver progress to the company. The uncommon sense of the activities is to remain balanced between the robotic strength of progress and the compassionate side of the disruption I am causing. Leading through change can be a lonely existence. The excitement of progress […]
Learning Doesn’t Happen Without Failure
Learning doesn’t happen without failure. Keeping our minds open through our experiences, new and old, allows us to learn through our experience. The other day I found myself at the crossroad of getting something done with constructive or destructive feedback. Mind you I am a firm believer that both types of feedback are needed – some habits […]
On-Point Delivery
“How do you want to see this?” This question is like a key artifact – its very important and even more rare. Much like finding that key relic, understanding how someone needs to see something can unlock the invisible force that prevents the dots from being connected. The other day I had a conversation with […]
Focus on Main Things
I am finally back from my road trip. I spent a lot of focused time thinking about two things – our clients’ needs and our strategy to meet them. The following words are reshaping the way our company is structured. Connect every activity to how it impacts our client’s experience. Know our strategy. Our company […]
Raising Expectations
“A personal choice to rise above one’s circumstance and demonstrate the ownership necessary for achieving desired results – to see it, own it, solve it, and do it” – Connors, Smith & Hickman in The Oz Principle. Bad joke tellers know the entire joke inside and out. They have everything they need to succeed – […]
Risks of Blocking Feedback
This week I am going to share a bit about feedback. I’ve written a lot about it from the point of view of the feedback provider. I’ve written in a way to help the provider provide the difficult and necessary feedback. The other side of finding success with feedback involves how well the recipient is […]
Challenges of Arrogance Revisited
What is best or right, is often overlooked by what is convenient. One of my pet peeves is finding myself revisiting the same challenges over and over. My mantra is “Tomorrow’s challenges better be different than today’s”. I’ve been receiving a lot of feedback to remind people about prior messages and encourage discussions about them. This […]
Hands on Inspections
I am a car novice. My skills with cars are limited to driving them. I cannot tell if I need a tune-up, oil change, maybe I can tell with an alignment, but thats about it. My guess is this is true of more and more drivers. Changing car oil at home used to be much […]
Raising Your Game
Can you believe we are in the homestretch of summer? Time is moving so fast! This week I will share a few of Thomas Watson’s quips that will hopefully make you laugh, think a bit, and put your ideas to work. It’s really about raising your game. Hopefully Tom’s tips will help. He was known […]
Making a Difference
It’s amazing how much you have to do with what happens to you. Reading about or noticing ways to make a difference – do you seize them? Do you help others find their way, their success? There are limits to folks flying solo. T ogether E ach A ccomplishes M ore. Do you go looking for […]
Mutual Respect Blends Intellect and Experience
We’ve been confronting our struggles of pointing fingers at goals rather than people. Last week we read about how we need to be respectful of one another, especially when we work together. We will definitely let one another down, so providing a bit of grace and understanding can help us find success more easily. With […]
Mutual Respect Meets for Project Planning
Preparing a project to be successful is one of the most important tasks of a project manager. There are so many times where we endure what we anticipate and planned around, all because someone didn’t dot, their i’s, cross their t’s, or read their simple instructions. Have you ever made the assumption that since you have […]
Changing for Progress
This week I am continuing my recent messages about progress. Seems like many people are converging on the crossroads of “What is best for me versus what is best for us”. I often quote my brother with “My value to the company, is my value of the company.” This can be varied into other parts […]
Fertile Garden of Disagreement
Good Morning. I hope this message finds you well rested and ready to have some fun with your biggest challenges. Making progress climbing our own mountains can be gratifying and humbling at the same time. So many of our mountains are related to the way people respond to situations. Today I will share about the […]
Uncommon Use of Innovation
“It’s kind of fun to do the impossible.” Walt Disney sure had it right. Overcoming naysayers and the limits of what has been done gives me that kind of joy that is personal, satisfies the fire in my belly, and shared with the very few others that were there during the quest. Walt Disney created […]
Goals at the Center of Your Infrastructure
I hope you all had a great holiday week. I was able to use the time to recharge with my family. I hope you all were able to spend the time exactly the way you wanted. This week I am writing about infrastructure and its importance to staying relevant through growth. I am sharing it […]
Tabloid Version of Events
“Enquiring Minds Want to Know”. The mindless information shared through tabloids is great for entertainment. Its a terrible place to go for facts. When people put a spin on information in tabloids, we know not to trust it. Why is it so present in the business world? Maybe its because seasoned spinsters have the ability […]
Managing for performance
Six months til Christmas…Wow! Where has the time gone? I need to slow down and learn something. This week I have a couple of statements from management writer Bruce Tulgan for you to read and process. Most everyone is a manager of a group at some time during their week – whether its a project, […]
Endurance
I hope everyone had a great Father’s Day Weekend! I spent mine enjoying some mid-summer type fun – a little yard work, swimming, and, of course, some barbecuing. I noticed something interesting while I was working in the yard. The sun was beating down on me as I tried to dig into rock to plant […]
The unintended consequences of placation
American History is one of my favorite topics to study. I love our country and marvel at it’s rise from faraway colony to the world’s super power. There have been major struggles along the way to success, including an attempt to self destruct. The internal bickering turned in political battles, and eventually became the war […]
Common Sense
Happy June everyone! I hope you all are enjoying your journey through the weekly messages. Here you are able to suspend all of your existing logic and look at situations from a different point of view. Knowing your perspective allows you to be a participant in the action. Knowing other points of view makes you a […]
Three small things
This weekend we were able to celebrate a holiday remembering the men and women who died while serving our country. American history is full of gallantry and come-togetherness that would seem to defy all odds. I am not sure I would have the mustard required to do what was required of those doing their duty. […]
Ignorance is a choice
The internal battle between pride and truth often ends in a way that a sound mind wishes was different. Today I am expanding on “Are your actions justified or are you justifying your actions”. Too many times clear evidence is disregarded and learning is lost, keeping these people ignorant. This is a very real risk, […]
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication
There is an interesting phenomenon I’ve noticed about the zoom lens on a camera – the better one feels about the way they look, the more comfortable they are with its use. Much like the lens of a camera, a mirror of our behavior can be just as intimidating. Today I am going to share […]
How responsible are you with your responsibilities?
For this week’s message I am sharing a couple of items for you to consider to shed the mindset or habits that make success elusive. So much is discussed about what to do to be a great leader, I thought I’d have a little fun and share what not to do. So I took our […]
How can we bring maturity to the way we manage ?
Maturity, the ability to respond to our challenges at the right time, in the right place, and in the appropriate manner, becomes increasingly important as we find more success. It is very easy to fall into the trap of becoming complacent in the way we do things or stuck at the level in the which […]
Overcoming difficult situations
I know of a few ways to overcome difficult situations – get stronger, smarter, or more lucky. The luck part we cannot specifically control, but like Thomas Jefferson said “I’m a greater believer in luck, and I find the harder I work the more I have of it”. We get better through our diverse and adverse […]
When One Door Closes, Another Opens
“When one door closes, another opens.” This common quote is often used in way to help someone pick themselves up after they failed at something or as a way to find a silver lining in a challenging situation. The patience to ask this of ourselves and to forgive ourselves for falling short can prove to […]
Responsibilities and Boundaries
Staying grounded and focused can be difficult through success. This week I’d like you to consider the relationship between “responsibilities and boundaries”. Its a rather odd word combination, but it is loaded with uncommon sense . The simplicity and humility it provides is boundless. When people do not have any responsibilities, it can be hard for […]
The Main Thing
Building something great can be hard work, full of set backs and false starts. As you all can see, I’ve been literally driven to the point of pulling out my hair – I’ve starting in the front, working my way back. I cannot afford much more of this, as the supply of this precious natural […]
Onward and Upward
At first, intentionally enduring adversity may seem a bit unconventional. Who in their right mind wants to experience unnecessary stress? If we look more closely, though, many parts of our society do this everyday, and we are often impressed by their achievements. Lets look at sports teams. They practice the fundamentals, game situations, and build […]
Falling Forward When Missing Expectations
Managing fickle times is much like baking – the right ingredients need to be coupled with the right timing and temperature to work out as intended. Unsteady, adverse situations are very risky, and can create a great opportunity to demonstrate our ability to adapt to the new needs. There are few situations where we can […]
Intentionally Enduring Adversity
At first, intentionally enduring adversity may seem a bit unconventional. Who in their right mind wants to experience unnecessary stress? If we look more closely, though, many parts of our society do this everyday, and we are often impressed by their achievements. Lets look at sports teams. They practice the fundamentals, game situations, and build […]
Atmospherics in Retail Overview
Retail atmospherics is a combination of sensory experiences and psychological affects that the customer intakes while immersed in the retailer’s environment. Origin: The term was coined by Philip Kotler in the Journal of Retailing, to describe the “conscious designing of space to create certain effects in buyers”, or in more detail, “the effort to design […]
Become Your Company’s Favorite Employee
The company’s goal of becoming other people’s favorite client/vendor/employer continues to be a guide for our processes. Coupling this with mutual respect for one another has prompted great improvements already, and these successes are creating the momentum we need to carry us further. Our potential continues to grow and many opportunities are being unlocked. Many […]
Reducing Risks to Raising Your Potential
Internal battles with change are much like the bar fights of old westerns – everyone is disrupted, all kinds of things are broken, and many people are injured. The major difference is the visibility, or openness of the damage done. Its easy to see the physical damage done during the bar fight, so its easy […]
Facility Maintenance – The Art of What Not To Fix
The needs of stores consistently exceed their budgetary constraints. This is a challenge most every facility manager faces. A skill that serves successful facility professionals well is the ability to discern what to fix and what not to fix. Since all repairs are not created equally, a weighting system of importance or priority is needed. […]
Following Through for Success
Through one month of this important first quarter we’ve already made significant headway on our key initiatives – our new software solution will be live this month, a key person is focused on creating standards of care to better support our teams, and we have a transition plan in place to create a third home […]
Preparing for Transitions
The way we approach transitions directly correlates to how well they unfold. Resicom is evolving from success to the company that sets the trend. To make this transition, our options must change from the easily identifiable “right” and “wrong” options into dilemmas – choosing between “great” and “great” options. There are many connections between how strong […]
Raising Expectations through Mutual Respect
Last week we reviewed the value of experience, and how enduring adverse and diverse experiences become the bedrock for our leadership skills. Our scars are the price of entry into senior roles. After all, who wants to enter a war under the command of a general that is not battle tested? How can we raise […]
Leaders Need Diversity in Experience
People tend to cling to the identity that made them successful. The longer someone stays in a role, the better they may become at it. Over time, though, this experience can become the very element that stifles their progress. Eventually the challenges change and if one continues to base their strategy on past successes, they […]
Building Mutual Respect – Part 1
Well, at least our quarterly meetings are like good television – some humor, some suspense, some tears, a bit of drama, and a whole lot of progress! The evolution of the way we approach the different timeline horizons for account and service development, evolution, and protection will yield success. Our company thrives when we turn […]
Becoming Obsolete – A Leaders Mission
Capabilities can be leveraged with the right leader. We need to look to utilize each persons capabilities, without the limits of our own. It takes a lot of trust to turn something over to someone. By defining what it is going to take for you to trust someone, they can actively work towards it, otherwise […]
Defeating Gossip – A Leaders Challenge
One of my struggles during change management is overcoming the sabotage by people trying to avoid a loss of comfort. I recently went through a period where too many conversations about a person were happening without that person. This gossip is detrimental in most every way possible. Here is I told my team I was […]
Verify, But Trust – A Leadership Quest
“Words are just words until actions support them.” – John Fairclough So many promises and statements are made that just don’t sit right with us. They are the words we may have wanted to hear, but for some reason we don’t trust them. I’ve been told “I support your decision” and the like for years, […]
Ideal Versus Practical – The Battle of Innovation
There is a huge battle being waged that SHOULD NEVER GO AWAY. It is the war between what is ideal and what is practical. Almost always, practical wins, and for good reason. With the developed methods, ideal and practical are too far apart. The big opportunity for innovation lives where an ideal is worth pursuing. […]
Strategic Decisions Quote – Slowing Down To Speed Success
“Strategic Decisions must have multiple perspectives present. In our haste to be efficient, we are tempted to speed a decision. Discerning well between what requires additional perspectives and what does not can open up new opportunities and lower your risk. So take your time and get it right.” – John Fairclough
Reflection’s Key Role in Developing Through Tough Experiences
How do we endure overly stressful periods and come out of them significantly stronger, in a productive way? This is a challenge I have recently been pondering – the people that help me be productive have not been able to, loading up the work I became responsible for. It was a bit enlightening as what […]
Sales Questions – from the buyers point of view
Does the person trying to sell me their product or service have the capacity to deliver value? Can I trust him? Does he care about me? These are a couple of standard questions when selling most items. It is wise to keep these in mind while building out an offering and determining your way of […]
Delegation Tips to Boost Your Productivity
If you believe you are busier than necessary, there are a couple of questions that may help you change this. Make a list of what you have worked on over the past week or two and identify items that should have been delegated to others and make a conscientious decision to delegate them going forward. […]
Timing Talk of Change
Clients look for their vendor partners to be an extension of their team. In our zealousness to find ways to help, we run the risk of missing what is on the table to discuss versus what is currently acceptable. Here are thoughts on how to identify situations to question processes/methods of others. When a process […]
Quick Exercise on Communication
I’d like to challenge you to listen as intensely as you speak up. In other words, we are naturally driven to make sure we are heard, I’d like you to put in that much effort in understanding someone else’s point. Figuring out a way to suspend my logic and try to make a case for […]
Understanding Others First
Looking at situations from different perspectives, temporarily suspending your own logic helps build up your skills of “connecting the dots”. This is what we need to do when developing solutions. This is how we are going to innovate our industry. Its often said that communication is the key to success. Usually people focus on being […]
Do You Communicate Clearly – A Self Reflection Exercise
So often a “yes or no” question is asked, but a paragraph response is given. It baffles me why so many people stumble on this. I get it – they are afraid of providing the wrong answer, or they want to show how hard something was, or a bunch of other reasons. As a question […]
Pursue Feedback
“So, how do I look?” There are some questions that create instant crossroads. I want to tell the truth, I want to protect the other person’s feelings, I want to share productive thoughts. So many wants, so few ways to meet them all. All too often the answer is provided, even if it is not […]
Learning Through Experiences
For the last few weeks we’ve been talking about finding improvement opportunities and discerning what to put our efforts in. This week I want to share a few thoughts about building our company’s intelligence through TCUP (Thinking Correctly Under Pressure). Its purpose is to improve our performance – to prepare us for situations we expect […]
Discerning Use of Resources
Just because you can does not mean you should… Last week I wrote about sweating the small stuff and how we need to look for the small items that reveal future breakdowns and address them proactively. This week I am writing about discernment. Our ability to decide where to use our resources greatly impacts our […]
A Fresh Perspective
There’s an old expression, you can’t see the forest for the trees. In business we work amongst the details of day to day responsibilities. That’s how we get things done, our products manufactured, our services sold. But we still need to step back and take a look at the big picture, especially if stalled in […]
Sweating the Small Stuff
We’ve had situations where it was simple to see our challenge and easy to understand it’s importance, yet I still failed to get the team focused on taking action. I found many of my frustrations were related to the level of urgency and importance people applied to our challenge. Leading Resicom has taught me many […]
Three Small Requests of Leaders
I have three small requests of you today. They will make a significant difference in life. Raising Your Level of Influence. The level of your influence is determined by how abundantly you place other people’s interests first. The tools we use are the things we share – our competence, character, and care. Think about how […]
What Gets Managed Gets Done
Imagine if your team had specific measurements of success. I don’t mean the basic financial measurements, rather I mean the ones that lead you to better understanding of where the challenges and opportunities are hidden within your company. Effective measurement makes performance visible and defines expectations. These assessments will lead to the identification of potential […]
Being Recipient Minded
Why would it be important to be “recipient minded” and what on earth does that mean? To be recipient minded means you have the others persons interest in mind. To Be recipient minded you need to remember who you are talking to and keep their point of view in your peripheral. You could go a […]
Relocating a Client
Psychologists tell us besides death, divorce and a few other events, moving is one of the most stressful events we can go through. Now imagine you are the manager of a high profile franchise and you need to move your headquarters temporarily (or even permanently) all while you have to stay open for business. Can […]
Fearless Communication
If you want to make an omelet you need to crack a few eggs. And sometimes its necessary to have hard conversations with people so there can be clear communication and good direction. You may need to muster some courage. Yet being brave does not mean you’re not nervous. There are many different personalities and […]
Dealing with an Angry Person
You can picture the scene: One person’s anger is causing their face to turn red, you see their blood start to boil and smoke coming out of their ears. What can you do to keep the peace? Here are a few things to keep in mind when dealing with someone who is overcome with anger: […]
Emotional Intelligence
If a leader has a hard time connecting with his team he or she may need a lesson in social intelligence. Is it possible to achieve a “brain connectedness” with someone–to feel what they are feeling? And why is that important? When it comes to social intelligence, science says it is important and can be […]
Perception is reality ?
Its been said that when we don’t like people on a personal level it is because we feel they do not like us. Whether this is a reality or simply a perceived reality, can you see how that may be true? Robert Wright is an author, journalist, accomplished scientist and regular speaker on TED.com. Wright believes […]
One Good Thing Leads to Another…
Want to know the trait that can increase business? Its a human trait that even animals display. Its empathy. Whether you are dealing with customers, vendors, family members, acquaintances, friends or associates, empathy is a trait that can make human bonds strong and make life worth living. It will behoove us to harness empathy to […]
Secrets
We all have secrets. Some are silly, others may be shocking. Just knowing that every human carries the weight of their own personal secrets can be freeing and is proof we all have struggles. Whether our secrets are funny or about intimacy, you can bet it can get complicated. Have you ever entertained the idea […]
“Freedom of Being Yourself” Play Your Position Podcast with John Fairclough
There is great freedom in being yourself. I believe that a lot of people have been made to feel irrelevant not knowing that they matter. I grew up that way. When I was young we were so poor. Nobody cared about what I had to say. My siblings and I, we had dirty clothes. We […]